The Technique
Wayne Ross

This is a method of meeting girls that very few guys ever use. It is the name card technique and can be used wherever a girl is using a name card to identify herself.Banks, department stores, restaurants, discount stores and many other business establishments have girls working for them who wear name cards with their first name. You simply find a girl you're interested in, look at her name card, call up the store and talk to her. This is a lot simpler than you think. Let me give you a couple examples how how this worked for a couple of my friends. Jim: "I was shopping at Penney's on Sunday for a gift for my sister. It was her birthday and I wanted to get her something nice. I was in the women's department looking at some sexy looking tops when I heard a soft feminine voice say, "Can I help you?" I looked over and saw one of the sexiest girls I ever had the pleasure of talking to. I told her I was looking for a gift for my sister and didn't know for sure what size she wore. I looked at the name tag she was wearing and her name was Debbie.

She helped me pick out something nice and suggested what size she thought my sister would wear after I told her how tall she was and how much she weighed. I left the department dreaming about how pretty and sexy Debbie was. I could have tried to pick her up right there and then, but I was not that aggressive. Instead I decided to call Penney's and talk to her. I waited a few days and called Penney's and asked for the women's department.

"Hello? Woman's Wear"

"Hi, is Debbie there?"

"This is Debbie."

"Hi Debbie, this is Jim. I was in there last week and you helped me pick out an outfit for my sister. I wanted to thank you for helping me and to tell you my sister really liked the outfit."

"Why, thank you," she said. I don't think she remembered me, but she was being polite. "I don't know how to say this Debbie, but you seem so nice and I think you're very pretty. I'd like to get to know you better. Can I see you sometime and maybe have lunch with you there in the mall?"

"I'm not sure," she replied. "I hardly know you." "I understand," I said. "What if I call you back again and talk to you a little more. We can get to know each other a little better."

"Okay, if I'm not too busy, we can talk a few minutes now and then."

I told her goodbye and hung up. I called back three or four times and talked to her and finally met her on her lunch hour for lunch. We had a good time laughing and joking.

I had lunch with her, as a friend, a couple more times and finally asked her out for a date. She went out with me for about three months and I had the time of my life with her, but she was ready to get serious and I met three more good looking girls using the name card technique and I wanted to spend more time with them.

There was Joan from Sears, a real pretty blonde, Lisa who worked at a resaurant in the mall, and Linda who worked at the Taco Bell in the food court in the mall. I am almost an expert in using this technique. Almost every restaurant I eat at has pretty waitresses that wear name tags. If I'm interested, I call them up and start talking to them. If they're married or have a boyfriend, I just make friends with them and try someone new. Sometimes they introduce me to their girlfriends because they like my nerve and imagination in trying to meet women this way. Any guy can meet a lot of girls using the name card technique."

Sam: "I have breakfast at a place called Country Manor nearly every morning before work. One morning I saw this beautiful waitress working there. She must have been new because I never saw her there before. She waited on me and I looked at her name tag and saw that her name was Barbara. She was really friendly and I just couldn't eat that first morning I saw her. I hardly talked to her because I was so nervous around her. I had read somewhere that a guy tried to meet a pretty girl by sending her flowers and signing "From your secret admirer". I decided to do this and went out and bought a dozen daisies and sent them to the restaurant with a card that said, "I think you're very pretty, from your secret admirer".

I still went in the restaurant every day and saw her looking around and trying to figure out who sent the flowers. I sent her a few cute cards and always signed them the same, "From your secret admirer." I don't think she ever guessed it was me because every day I just talked to her like a friend and she never mentioned the cards or gifts. I decided it was time to tell her the truth. I went to a T-Shirt place and bought a T-Shirt and had printed on it: From your secret admirer.

The very next day I went in the restaurant and had a jacket on so she couldn't see my T-Shirt. After she waited on me, I got up my nerve and took my jacket off. When she came over to give me the check, I looked at her and said, "Hi Barb, from your secret admirer." I didn't know what to expect, but I didn't expect her to cry and that is what she did. I thought I had embarrassed her, but she looked at me and said, "That's the nicest thing anyone ever did for me." Barb and I are going together and we plan on getting married. I really love her and would never have met her if I didn't use the name card technique to get her name and try to get her attention. Thanks Wayne."